Identity controls behavior

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These notes were taken when I virtually attended the Ignite the family women’s conference held in Missouri on March 5th and 6th. The speaker was Kathy Koch (Cook)

The Five components that control our behavior


  1. Security- who can I trust
  2. Identity-.who am I
  3. Belonging- who wants me. 
  4. Purpose-why am I Alive
  5. Competence- what can I do.

Competence is not perfection

Beliefs and Behaviour are linked, belief cause our behavior



If you want to change your behavior, you have to change your beliefs because what you listen to causes your identity. 

How can I figure out what I believe?

  1. What do you think about?
  2. What don’t you think about
If you don’t know what you believe, find someone similar to you and ask them why they do what they do. 

To change we have to exchange.  Give God a behavior in exchange for better behavior. 


To be a woman of God we need accountability

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