Reflecting on 2021

This time of reflection is based on a podcast episode of #Detailtherapy by my friend and mentor, Amy Landino

1.  What Am I most proud of?

I’m proud of myself for realizing that it’s ok to be a wheelchair user.  It has opened up so many. opportunities for me.   Because I decided to become a wheelchair user again, that led me want to use Access service and go out on my own.  Even though my outings are simple, I have felt so much freedom, and I feel like a brand new woman.   I’m also proud that I chose to attend Rollettes Experience 2021 in July virtually and that I’ve continued to take dance classes. 

2. When did I have the most fun?


I’ve had fun with everything that I’ve been able to do this year.  I love hanging out with my life group at church.  I love my solo coffee dates with myself because they help me brainstorm new podcast ideas and get clear-headed in general. I also have had fun going to see my favorite singers perform, and I am grateful to call them my friends. 

   

3. Where did you fail?

I have not used my handcycle at all, and I said I would get strong arms to push myself.  The second place I feel like I failed was that I didn’t spend that much time with my cousin while she was sick.  I also am still kicking myself for second-guessing her pain and her faith.  She had more faith in Christ Jesus than I had ever imagined. 

4.  Did my theme ring true for 2021?

If I had to name my theme, it would be a new attitude, and yes, I think it rang true even more than I expected. 

5. What lessons did I learn in 2021?

  • My relationship with Jesus defines who I am; I don’t have to search for my identity.
  • Spend time with family and friends and tell them how you feel about them.
  • It’s important to know what you think about life and how to explain it respectfully if asked to. 
  • It’s fantastic to find a community of people like you who share similar experiences to yours. 
  • The things that I use in my daily life do not define me as a person.

6. Where do I wish I had spent more time?

With my cousins

What will I start?

I will start spending.time with my cousins.

7. What Will I start?


I’ll start using my handcycle, and I’l start creating dance videos.

8. What will I stop?

I’ve done pretty well with this already, but I want to stop judging myself for having a hard day.

9. What do I want to continue?

I want to continue being part of the Rollettes community. I’ve had so much fun getting to know the ladies. I also want to continue being independent and growing friendships with women like me. I also will continue this website and podcast. I can’t wait for the new year.

10. What is my theme for 2022


Marie Nicole Is A Boundless Babe!

This is not only because I’m going to be a member of the Boundless Babe Society but also because I want to experience more in life.

Listen to Amy

Encouragement Notes Episode

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