This time of reflection is based on a podcast episode of #Detailtherapy by my friend and mentor, Amy Landino
1. What Am I most proud of?
I’m proud of myself for realizing that it’s ok to be a wheelchair user. It has opened up so many. opportunities for me. Because I decided to become a wheelchair user again, that led me want to use Access service and go out on my own. Even though my outings are simple, I have felt so much freedom, and I feel like a brand new woman. I’m also proud that I chose to attend Rollettes Experience 2021 in July virtually and that I’ve continued to take dance classes.
2. When did I have the most fun?
I’ve had fun with everything that I’ve been able to do this year. I love hanging out with my life group at church. I love my solo coffee dates with myself because they help me brainstorm new podcast ideas and get clear-headed in general. I also have had fun going to see my favorite singers perform, and I am grateful to call them my friends.
3. Where did you fail?
I have not used my handcycle at all, and I said I would get strong arms to push myself. The second place I feel like I failed was that I didn’t spend that much time with my cousin while she was sick. I also am still kicking myself for second-guessing her pain and her faith. She had more faith in Christ Jesus than I had ever imagined.
4. Did my theme ring true for 2021?
If I had to name my theme, it would be a new attitude, and yes, I think it rang true even more than I expected.
5. What lessons did I learn in 2021?
- My relationship with Jesus defines who I am; I don’t have to search for my identity.
- Spend time with family and friends and tell them how you feel about them.
- It’s important to know what you think about life and how to explain it respectfully if asked to.
- It’s fantastic to find a community of people like you who share similar experiences to yours.
- The things that I use in my daily life do not define me as a person.
6. Where do I wish I had spent more time?
With my cousins
What will I start?
I will start spending.time with my cousins.
7. What Will I start?
I’ll start using my handcycle, and I’l start creating dance videos.
8. What will I stop?
I’ve done pretty well with this already, but I want to stop judging myself for having a hard day.
9. What do I want to continue?
I want to continue being part of the Rollettes community. I’ve had so much fun getting to know the ladies. I also want to continue being independent and growing friendships with women like me. I also will continue this website and podcast. I can’t wait for the new year.
10. What is my theme for 2022
Marie Nicole Is A Boundless Babe!
This is not only because I’m going to be a member of the Boundless Babe Society but also because I want to experience more in life.
