Who I’m Becoming

I’ve had a great time for the past two days participating in a Facebook group called the Becoming challenge.

Yesterday we learned about growth through positive self-talk and breathing technics in order to improve our health. We also talked about how much a smile can change your out look on your day and your life.

How to be confident 10 tips from my mentor Amy Landino

  1. Know your stuff, be knowledgeable about what you want to contribute to a situation
  2. Be intentional. This sounds like number 1, but it is essential to remember that you cannot break all silences. Don’t speak for the sake of making noise
  3. The clipboard test: walk as if you are supposed to be in the space you are in. Hold your shoulders back and pick your head up.
  4. Don’t be afraid to say I don’t know; it could be a chance for someone to teach you something
  5. Remember that people are just people, not superheroes in disguise.
  6. Be clear about what you want and ask for it.
  7. Dress the part. We should dress the way we want to feel.
  8. Do your research, when you are going somewhere, try to find information about people attending the event so you can know a bit about them and come up.with interesting questions to ask.
  9. Be ok with making mistakes
  10. Practice practice practice.

Dumb Things Christians say: Christians should Never Judge

Where did this Dumb Thing Come From?



“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces. Matthew 7:1‭-‬6 NIV


Tolerance used to mean: The Right to Be Wrong

Today Tolerance means: Everybody is right and Nobody is wrong.

What does it mean to judge

  • To Evaluate, choose or determine.  This is how we use judgement everyday. 
  • To condemn or pass Final verdict.  This is the definition the Lord calls use to stay away from. 

Memory Verse

Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly.”

John 7:24

Dangers of Judging wrongly

  1. You’re not the final judge God is.
  2. Judgment has a boomerang effect
  3. It’s hypothetical, don’t judge someone on something that you might be struggling with to. 

How to Judge Rightly

  1. Carefully
  2. Biblically
  3. Humbly

See what God has to say about things in his word.  If God does not say anything in his word about something you think is an issue let it go.  If you know for sure that God says something his word about an issue. Say something, but hate the sin and love the sinner.

Dumb Things Christians say: Everything Happens for a reason

And we know that in all things, God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.


Romans 8:28

When Bad things happen:

The good news
  • Everything happens for a reason
  • The Bad news it’s not always the reason we hoped for.

A promise with a Premise

  • In all things, God works for Good
  • Not all things are Good


A Promise with a Premise



And we know that in all things, God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
To claim the promise of Romans 8:28, you have to fulfill the premise
  • Be a member of God’s family

When Bad things happen:

  • A bad thing might become a good thing. God may turn situations around for good. 
  • A bad thing might be a bad thing.  We live in a fallen world, and sin has consequences.

The Smart Thing

Whatever happens, obey God. 

Two things to remember

  • If you are a follower of Jesus, this world is as close to hell as you are ever going to get.
  • If you are not a follower of Jesus, this world is as close to heaven.as you are ever going to get.

Hi I’m Marie and I’m a push girl

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Celebrating 6 years of friendship: A Jersey Boy and That Woman from that Neighborhood

As a blog post, this celebration is a day late, but I celebrated yesterday on my other social media outlets. October 13th, 2014, was the evening that I met my dear friend John Lloyd Young. That was a night that I will never forget.

I’ll always remember the music for Can’t Take My Eyes off of You Starting and wondering where John was because we could hear him, but he was nowhere to be seen. All of a sudden, my mom elbows me and says

Turn around. He’s right behind you!
And he was looking right at me.  During the show he came out into the audience singing, Hey There Lonely Girl, and tried to hold my hand.  I wouldn’t let him. 
     At the end of the night, I asked for a hug, and he said,
How could I say no
And hugged me.  Little did we know that was the beginning of a beautiful friendship. 

      I’ve had the pleasure of seeing and cheering on my handsome and talented friend 36 times.  The majority of those meetings taking place at Sterlings Upstairs at the Federal in North Hollywood and the rest of our time together has been at Feinstein’s at Vitello’s in Studio City.
Below are some of my favorite memories of us. 


What do you miss most?

We all have pieces of our lives that we feel are missing because of the safer at home situation we are in. What do you miss most?

For me, I miss going out regularly. I’m not only referring to dressing up and going to concerts. I miss the weekly routine of going to Bible study, sitting on a comfy couch, and chatting with my friends. I also miss freely being able to hug someone with.

Tonight I was able to participate in a Webinar called women in media and ministry. It was a conversation about women media and relationships.

I We learned that to maintain our sanity; we need to first and foremost need to stay in God’s Word and maintain our prayer life. We also need to place importance on taking care of our relationships with one another. We need to make time for virtual tea times and coffee dates, and if we are comfortable, we need to invite friends over for some socially distanced lunches ask them to bring their lunch an sit on your porch while you sit in your door way and talk to them.

Why I share my Faith

When I first became a Beachbody Coach, I was the annoying woman who would only share , the products she was using on social media. I quickly learned that to truly be successful and have an impact; you needed to be willing to share other things about yourself.

well listening to a mentor of mine named Bob Heileg that you should share the notes that you have tucked away in your desk drawer. The notes that I always have tucked away are the sermon notes from church, so one day, I decided that I would start reteaching what I learned in church. It has grown into something bigger than me and is something that I will continue to do because God commands me to do and I want to see all my friends and family come to a relationship with Jesus Christ.

The reason for this post is to tell anyone reading it that if you have a desire to reach your community in any way start by sharing the notes you have in your desk drawer.

Answering a LifeGroup question

Do you think there is a difference between saying im sorry and repentance?


I think there is a huge difference between using the words im sorry and repentance because anyone can say im sorry, but it takes action to repent. To repent means that someone completely changes their behavior.

     If someone tells you they are sorry, but their actions do not change, you have the responsibility to forgive them, but then you have the right to end or change the relationship.

      For instance, if you have a best friend who.is always late.picking you up, eventually, you may have to them

I’m still happy to be your friend and hang out with you, but. i’ll find my own way to get there.

    If you are in a relationship where someone has told you continually that they know that you’ve had trust issues with them because of past behavior that scared you, and you recently saw the same behavior.  Forgive them in your heart and leave the relationship

Dumb Things Christians Say: Forgiving means Forgetting


Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea until they have something to forgive

-C. S. Lewis

The Myth of a forgetful God


No longer will they teach their neighbor, or say to one another, ‘Know the Lord ,’ because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest,” declares the Lord . “For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.”
Jeremiah 31:34

For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.”

Hebrews 8:12


But God remembered Noah and all the wild animals and the livestock that were with him in the ark, and he sent a wind over the earth, and the waters receded.

Genesis 8:1



Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go. “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded. “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’ “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened. “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed. “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”

Matthew 18:21‭-‬35

What we learn from the parable of the unmerciful servant:

1.  God specializes in unfair trade

God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. 

2/Corinthians 5:21

God does not treat us as our sins deserve
Psalm 103:12

2. Forgiven people forgive people


Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’

Matthew 18:33

3.  Forgiveness does not mean forgetting


I can choose to forgive people when I:

1.  Remember how much I’ve been forgiven
When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins,

Colossians 2:13

2. Release the individual

3. Refocus on God’s Grace. 

Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

Hebrews 4:16

Memory Verse


Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

Colossians 3:13