Celebrating

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The first picture was taken a year ago tomorrow on my 38th birthday; the second picture was taken a few minutes ago.  Today I’m spending some time saying goodbye and thank you to year 38 of my life.  You were surprisingly eventful on a personal level.

This year made me think deeply about education and the fact that I probably didn’t need nine years of college to learn what I am drawn to.   This year also made me realize that no matter how stupid we think we sound, we need to speak what’s in our hearts.   Lastly, If it wasn’t for this year, it wasn’t for this year, I would have never started my podcast and discovered that I love it more than making videos

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My Style and Essence Analysis

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On January 12th, 2021, I had the opportunity to have a style and Essence analysis done by Elyssa of Elyssa Aesthetics.com

How my style journey started


I was a child of the 80s through and through.  My wardrobe essentials back then were:
  • Leg warmers
  • Leotards
  • Overalls
  • Ruffled socks
  • Pretty dresses
  • My hair accessories always matched the color of my clothes

Artistically at this time(musically)

My favorite singers were
  • Cindy Lauper
  • Tiffany
  • New Kids on The Block
  • Paula Abdul
  • Debbie Gibson
  • Gloria Estefan
  • Belinda Carlisle
  • The Bengals


  • Me Artistically Now

    1. Broadway
  • 2. 60s music
  • 3. Spanish Ballads

My current appearance


Body Style- Romantic (curvy)
Appearance of Maturity -How old or young I look. 
According to Elyssa, I don’t have any prominent features that would make me appear older or younger than I am.  I’m right in the middle, so I have to be careful not to go too boldly in either direction with clothing and makeup.

     What surprised me most, as I do not look or sound as young as I once thought, and to me, that is a good thing. 

My Essence:
Moderate Energy
Friendly
Not extremely high tempo, but Zesty
Smiles when speaking

Our God-Given dream, Healthy Relationships and God’s identity

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I took these notes on day two of the Ignite the family women’s Conference

Speaker: Todd Wilson: Dreams and Dream Killers

The Dreams that we have in our hearts are given to us by God


Things we need to know about dreams and dream killers


1.  God is big enough to kill the dumb dreams, those that are not part of his plan for you

2.  It’s our job to fan the dreams of the people we love

3.  People that kill your dreams admire people like you. So plug your ears to people around you and give your dream to God. 

4. If the advice doesn’t fit, take it off. 

5.  Dreamers are Rock Chuckers.


Speaker: Kathy Koch, (Cook)

Relationships


1. All healthy relationships are response-based.
2. In unhealthy relationships, responses aren’t returned

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Romans 15:13

To overflow with abundant hope, how do I respond?

Get to know God and his character.
He is:
Hope
Love
Mercy
Grace

God is also H.o. p. E.
High-spirited
Optimistic
Positive
Encouraging

God holds Us close so we won’t get into trouble
We need near and distant hope.  God gives us both he gives us near hope for today and far distant hope for the future

When The Risen Savior calls your name

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Now, let me ask you something profound yet troubling. If you became believers because you trusted the proclamation that Christ is alive, risen from the dead, how can you let people say that there is no such thing as a resurrection? If there’s no resurrection, there’s no living Christ. And face it—if there’s no resurrection for Christ, everything we’ve told you is smoke and mirrors, and everything you’ve staked your life on is smoke and mirrors. Not only that, but we would be guilty of telling a string of barefaced lies about God, all these affidavits we passed on to you verifying that God raised up Christ—sheer fabrications, if there’s no resurrection. If corpses can’t be raised, then Christ wasn’t, because he was indeed dead. And if Christ weren’t raised, then all you’re doing is wandering about in the dark, as lost as ever. It’s even worse for those who died hoping in Christ and resurrection, because they’re already in their graves. If all we get out of Christ is a little inspiration for a few short years, we’re a pretty sorry lot. But the truth is that Christ has been raised up, the first in a long legacy of those who are going to leave the cemeteries

1 Corinthians 15:12‭-‬20

1. The call of comfort Mary Magdalene

But Mary stood outside the tomb weeping. As she wept, she knelt to look into the tomb and saw two angels sitting there, dressed in white, one at the head, the other at the foot of where Jesus’ body had been laid. They said to her, “Woman, why do you weep?” “They took my Master,” she said, “and I don’t know where they put him.” After she said this, she turned away and saw Jesus standing there. But she didn’t recognize him. Jesus spoke to her, “Woman, why do you weep? Who are you looking for?” She, thinking that he was the gardener, said, “Mister, if you took him, tell me where you put him so I can care for him.” Jesus said, “Mary.” Turning to face him, she said in Hebrew, “ Rabboni! ” meaning “Teacher!” Jesus said, “Don’t cling to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father. Go to my brothers and tell them, ‘I ascend to my Father and your Father, my God and your God.’” Mary Magdalene went, telling the news to the disciples: “I saw the Master!” And she told them everything he said to her.

John 20:11‭-18

2. The call of commission -Peter

Jesus came back, “God bless you, Simon, son of Jonah! You didn’t get that answer out of books or from teachers. My Father in heaven, God himself, let you in on this secret of who I really am. And now I’m going to tell you who you are, really are. You are Peter, a rock. This is the rock on which I will put together my church, a church so expansive with energy that not even the gates of hell will be able to keep it out.

Matthew 16:17‭-‬18

3. The call of conviction-Paul

All this time Saul was breathing down the necks of the Master’s disciples, out for the kill. He went to the Chief Priest and got arrest warrants to take to the meeting places in Damascus so that if he found anyone there belonging to the Way, whether men or women, he could arrest them and bring them to Jerusalem. He set off. When he got to the outskirts of Damascus, he was suddenly dazed by a blinding flash of light. As he fell to the ground, he heard a voice: “Saul, Saul, why are you out to get me?” He said, “Who are you, Master?” “I am Jesus, the One you’re hunting down. I want you to get up and enter the city. In the city you’ll be told what to do next.” His companions stood there dumbstruck—they could hear the sound, but couldn’t see anyone—while Saul, picking himself up off the ground, found himself stone-blind. They had to take him by the hand and lead him into Damascus. He continued blind for three days. He ate nothing, drank nothing.

Acts 9:1‭-‬9 MSG

I miss church

What was your pre-pandemic weekend routine like? You’re going to think I’m crazy, but here is what mine was.
Wake up between 4 am -4:30
Breakfast at 6
Out the door by 7:20
This was my worship leading routine that happened on the first Sunday of the month.
Easter weekend was one of the busiest weekends because we sang at three services
Good Friday and Easter Saturday and Sunday,

Identity controls behavior

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These notes were taken when I virtually attended the Ignite the family women’s conference held in Missouri on March 5th and 6th. The speaker was Kathy Koch (Cook)

The Five components that control our behavior


  1. Security- who can I trust
  2. Identity-.who am I
  3. Belonging- who wants me. 
  4. Purpose-why am I Alive
  5. Competence- what can I do.

Competence is not perfection

Beliefs and Behaviour are linked, belief cause our behavior



If you want to change your behavior, you have to change your beliefs because what you listen to causes your identity. 

How can I figure out what I believe?

  1. What do you think about?
  2. What don’t you think about
If you don’t know what you believe, find someone similar to you and ask them why they do what they do. 

To change we have to exchange.  Give God a behavior in exchange for better behavior. 


To be a woman of God we need accountability

When I remember the End of the Story

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The Lord is my shepherd; I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures; he leads me beside quiet waters; he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

Psalms 23:1‭-‬6

The Big Idea

Don’t forget surely


I can have confidence no matter what I’m facing.
..

1. Because God’s goodness and mercy are chasing after me. 

Goodness- when God gives me what I don’t deserve

Mercy -When doesn’t give me what I do deserve


The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love. He will not always accuse, nor will he harbor his anger forever; he does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.

Psalms 103:8‭-‬12


“What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off. In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish. Matthew 18:12‭-‬14

2.  Because God’s glory is waiting for me. 

And I will dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life.
Psalm 23:6b


One thing I ask from the Lord , this only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the Lord and to seek him in his temple.

Psalms 27:4

If we could combine all 66 books of the Bible into one phrase way it would Be

God With Us

A follow up to yesterday’s post:be careful about who you seek advice from

I survived, I kissed dating Goodbye


Becoming a child of God and knowing in my soul that he loves me and died on the Cross to save me is something that is part of me.

I also carry the belief that people should not have sex before marriage if you are a Christian.

However, I also believe that when I came to my saving faith in Christ that I wanted to fit in and belong among the Christian teens that I knew. So when it came to doing highschool activities like going to dances, I did not think about asking someone older than me, who had lived more life and was a follower of Christ, how they navigated high school rights of passage.

I only knew that all of my friends were reading a book called I kissed dating goodbye, this was a book that was, without a doubt, The Trend of the ’90s, and I took it as scripture rather than opening my Bible.

So, in conclusion, I would encourage younger people who accept Jesus Christ as their savior to read your Bible and ask questions of older people than you in the faith because if something seems too trendy, it probably is.

The Day That Changed My Life

I don’t remember the exact date or day of the week, but I do remember that the day that changed my life happened in 1995 and I was 13 years old. I was at school and it was nutrition, 10 am or so.

I went into the health office crying, saying I need to call my mom. I want to go home. I was being bullied at this time in my life very badly and the students who were bullying me were in my first two classes.

When I called my mom saying that I wanted to go home she asked me why and I told her I can’t take it anymore I need to go home. She told me to try to calm down and stop crying and then she told me the thing that changed my life just pray. I told her I didn’t know what to pray for she told me again just pray so while I was still crying I hung up the phone and went into another room and said God I don’t know if you want to hear me I know you’re busy but I need your help I need you to come into my life and help me through this I can’t do this on my own anymore the moment that I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior was the moment that my life changed. The things that I experienced didn’t get any easier but I knew I wasn’t alone. When you accept Christ as your lord and savior he promises that at that moment you are his forever child he loves you and he will watch out for you and he promises to be with you in every step of your life. Becoming a child of God is the best decision I have ever made it’s not something you are born into as some might think because of your family being Christian it’s not something you get baptized into as a baby but it is a decision that you need to make at any time in your life if you are reading this and you have not made that decision yet I urge you to consider letting Jesus into your life. If you do come to that decision at any time not just when you’re reading this please feel free to let me know and I will commit to bring for you I know that this is one of the best decisions you will ever make in your life if not the best ever decision you will make in your life God bless and I’ll talk to you soon

Who is Marie

I finished reading a book called Share your stuff, I’ll go first and I came up with this list inspired by chapter 1 called who are you.

I am

1. A follower of Christ
2.  A daughter
3.  A sister
4. A singer
5.  A younger cousin
6.  An older cousin
7. A niece
8.  A lover of music and Theatre
9.  I’m a great listener
10.  I pray for people I love and those who don’t like me.
11.  I don’t get why people, especially women, complain about getting older. 
12. I use to complain if I wasn’t constantly on the go, but now I know how to be at peace when I’m home.