I’m not broken

Today is #inerntionaldayofdisability
When I was thinking about what to post today I was intending on creating a reel but, I’ll keep it simple  I’ve been told multiple times that my wheelchair isn’t a good thing for me.  Twenty five year old me would have agreed with the people who take the time to make these comments but the 43 year old me has seen and experienced the Life  that comes with using my chair.  I love my life. I know now that I’m not broken.

Because I knew you, I have been changed for good

It’s the end of an era, but I’ve been changed for good. Yesterday, when I was on my way home, I received an email that said Boundless Babes Society will no longer continue after 2025.

In July 2021, I decided to attend the Rollettes Experience virtually. This was the first time that I  was involved in an event with the disability community. I was hooked, and there was no going back! After RE, I applied to join Boundless Babes Society.  The day of my first meeting, I was looking forward to finding out what life had in store for me after I decided to embrace my life as a disabled woman.  When I got my new wheelchair, my mentor, Renee, challenged me to go out for coffee once a week, so I could get used to using my chair and being seen in public, as it was something I was self-conscious about. Fast forward to 2023, and doors start to open to advocacy opportunities that I would never have had if I hadn’t learned the lessons in self-confidence, being unapologetically myself, and taking up space. I would  not be the woman I am today without this program

Memories

Me at @wicked_musical in 2008. Oh my, Oz! Fiyero hugged me! The 20-something-year-old girl in this picture was living a NessaRose existence.  I wanted to do everything I could to be *Normal ” and I thought normal meant walking.  I also know what Elphaba felt like, because, unfortunately, those of us who are different are often asked to have unwanted personal conversations that you would never ask a normal-looking person on the street.